A closer look at your words
Relationships
Do you say things like “All the good men (or women) are taken!” or “People are always taking advantage of me?”
If you do, you’re literally programming yourself for unhappy relationships.
Your mind hears every word you speak and it sets out to prove you right.
With regard to our above examples, your mind will see to it that you attract only those persons who will disappoint you or take advantage of you.
Is this what you want? If not, stop repeating (and causing your mind to focus on) such negative statements!